never trust an honest dragon

so i found this dress that i so wanted for anime expo. i ordered it and sent my money, in january. well it's now the end of may, i need the dress by the end of june, and it's still not here. it was sent back to the honest dragon so i had to send her more money to resend it. well i did that and she put an address on the package that i haven't lived at in more than two years. i have no idea how she even got this address. so i contacted the post office and they said i have to pay and have my address changed. i did that when we moved from there, TWO YEARS BEFORE!!! why should i have to do it again. i don't understand why the post office can't intercept it and send it to a post office where i can pick it up. they told me that the sender has to contact them with the correct address!! WTF??? i don't get it. so i emailed the honest dragon again and she said to check for it after june 5th. i need it before the end of june....hello!!??
so i told her the post office said she has to contact them. i also told her if i don't get it when i need it then i want my money back. i can't keep sending her shipping money for something she intends for me to never get. i can't lose the money i paid for the dress either. i don't want my shipping money back, i don't want the dress at this point, i just want my money back. damn. i guess i have to chalk it up to a loss altogether. damn dragons. =^..^=