oh sister-in-law

well i have learned that while mom and i were at the wedding, and melinda was supposed to be watching the kids so the guys could work, something very upsetting went on. mihi was wailing and walking around the house. we aren't sure for how long. jim turned off the jack hammer and heard her so he went in the house. melinda gave him a dirty look and said she has been wailing and walking around the house while melinda just sat there and watched her. she said to jim that she didn't know what to do. jim said what would you do with your own kid. well i guess it happened again later and melinda again just sat there without doing anything. not even picking her up. so my dad came in to pick her up because jim went to go get the car from the shop. i just can't believe it. i would never just watch while a baby was roaming around wailing and so upset. i was so pissed when i heard about it. i made sure it is clear to everyone she is not to be alone with my children EVER! how could she be so mean. if stanton were crying and upset i would pick him up, not just sit there and watch him lose it. mihi probably thought she was alone the entire time and was so upset! some aunt melinda is. i just can't believe it. =^..^=