It's okay to feel your feelings

I tried so hard to explain my feelings to him. I try to do this with everyone. I do not want there to be misunderstanding and I do not want others to feel they are the source if my anger or sadness if they are not. He took this all for granted and only expressed anger at me. Every time I tried to get him to explain he just remained silent. I have to remind myself of these things, I cannot allow this to happen again. Hearts are fragile toys so easy to forget. I need to stop loving him. I don't know how...